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		<title>Of Facebook</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ibn Gias The face that launched a thousand ships and burnt the topless towers of Ilium. ‘The face that launched a thousand ships’ is a figure of speech that stands for Helen of Troy. Helen was so beautiful that Greek men went to Troy and fought the Trojan War to win Helen back from Paris. [...]]]></description>
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<p><em>The face that launched a thousand ships and burnt the topless towers of Ilium</em>.</p>
<p>‘The face that launched a thousand ships’ is a figure of speech that stands for Helen of Troy. Helen was so beautiful that Greek men went to Troy and fought the Trojan War to win Helen back from Paris. But we can consider ourselves fortunate that we have not yet heard of burning down any modern tower for conquering any face among a lot existing in the Facebook. May be the people of modern age are less crazy and more rational than the people of the ancient time!<span id="more-1458"></span></p>
<p>Face reflects one’s personality. The saying goes – “Face is the index of mind”. But do our Facebook accounts reflect the state of our minds? Surely not. When someone gives a status in Facebook s/he usually keeps in mind how many of her/his friends will like the status. Most of the statuses in people’s Facebook accounts are all about their good works and most of the time happy moments are shared. There are a few who dare to comment like ‘I have told a lie today, so I repent’. Fewer are there who are courageous enough to make their Facebook friends know that they got a retake in their last semester.</p>
<p>Moreover, in the Facebook we are friends with our classmates, siblings, relatives and also with our teachers. We can share our thoughts and feelings with our friends, but can hardly do so with our teachers. So the ‘common’ comments which we put in Facebook accounts are usually vague.</p>
<p>But as a social being the tendency to share and relish feelings and events with others is eternal for us. Facebook, Twitter etc. have extended us the opportunity to materialise the dream. However, the eagerness to share something exclusive in Facebook is also making some of us stupid! As for example, a few days ago a friend of mine tagged a video in Facebook in which I saw a shop is ablaze. Later the friend informed me that the shop is situated near his house and he took the exclusive video after the fire had spread from an electric short circuit. In my utter surprise I asked him why he was making video instead of trying to extinguish the fire. He could not give me a convincing answer. But I understood that my friend has also been suffering from a Facebook mania &#8211; the trend to put something more exclusive in Facebook than his other friends did previously.</p>
<p>However, it is not that nothing good is coming from the use of Facebook. The recent uprising in the Middle East for democracy is one among the good things that happened by utilising this social network.</p>
<p>Finally, we can hope – ‘Let a thousand flowers bloom’ as because the nobility of the Facebook lies in the fact that the face of the social network is shaped, into good or bad, according to its users’ will.</p>
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		<title>The Story of Flowering a Bud</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hafizur Rahman Part-1 It is a wonderful experience to live in a hall of residence at any university. One’s life must remain incomplete if one does not have the taste of a university dorm. In Bangladesh to live in a university hall is like to live in the Garden of Eden. Beside education, there many [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;">Hafizur Rahman</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Part-1</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">It is a wonderful experience to live in a hall of residence at any university. One’s life must remain incomplete if one does not have the taste of a university dorm. In Bangladesh to live in a university hall is like to live in the Garden of Eden. Beside education, there many things to learn from campus life such as culture, politics, acting, reciting, and what not. University of Dhaka was the Oxford of the East because of its residential facilities for the students. <span id="more-1342"></span>A student lives in the hall almost free of cost. In return s/he is to pay only around 200 taka per year as seat rent and house tutor fees. At the university halls electricity seldom goes off, and they are well-facilitated with waters and gas supplies. When on rare occasions power goes off in the evening, students blow whistle, play on flutes, beat drums, plates and pots, sing songs, do gossip sitting round, crack jokes, shout and bark dogs or fox,  laugh and roll down on the grassy ground in the midst of the halls. In the afternoon, when everybody takes a nap, butterflies are found to fly from one flower to flower. If it is a dark night you can see millions of mysterious stars shining in the sky lying on your back. And if it is a moonlit night you will surely have dreamy feelings. You can even keep the windows open and can sleep bathing in the moonlight.</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">The first year ‘flew away depending on the rosy wings’ of romantic imagination.  “I enjoyed many programs like the picnic in my department, the celebration of Pahela Falgun, Valentine’s Day, 21<sup>st</sup> February, 26<sup>th</sup> March, the great Independence Day, Pahela Baishakh, Bangla Academy Book Fair, seminar, symposium, Path Natak, cultural programs, and celebration of a number of national and international days to my hearts content. I was as happy as a bird freed from its case in my university life.”  So noted Raju in his diary. It was fantastic experience to celebrate the Pahela Baishakh in the university hall and especially at Ramna Batamul. When it was 12:00am of Pahela Baishak, the boys started blowing whistle, playing on flutes, beating drums, plates, glass and utensils. And they were running to the Ramna Batamul. Raju joined them to share the fun. He found some students wearing shorts, lungi, genji, etc. He felt ashamed of. Still, he followed them. They ran towards Roquiah Hall and Shamsunnahar Hall and started to dance. The gate was closed. So nobody could enter but the girls came out of their rooms and were standing on the balcony. The students who had motorbikes with them shined the head light towards the balcony. Now the girls and the boys could clearly see each other. Some girls were holding candles in their hands. Some started to blow conch shell. A boy shouted at the girls to the top of his voice saying, ‘Come my Queen.’ The girls responded to the call replying, ‘Come my King.’ In the morning different musical groups started to perform their musical shows. Many were selling panta–hilsha, toys, masks, flutes, clay made toys, handicrafts. People from all walks of life came to join the festival wearing colorful sari, panjabi and pajamas. A group of people brought out procession with ploughs, yolks, toka, scythe, nidani, sticks and levelers carrying on their shoulders. Charukala Institute brought out a colorful procession having huge paper-made tigers, elephants, palki, pankha, fish, dragon etc. Ice-cream, balloon, nut, chocolate, fruit, chatpati and   sweet venders were found here and there.  Singers sang Bhatiali, Bhawaiya, Murshidi, Jari, Shari, Nazrul songs, Tagore songs and patriotic songs. In the afternoon there was not a single spot blank at TSC, Dhaka University, Sohrawardi Udyan and at Ramna Park. It was just looking like a big sea of floating people. Some people were found carrying their kids on their shoulders. Discussion programs were also being held informing the gathering about the history of Bangla year. Raju came to many unknown stories about Emperor Akbar the great, his regime and the history and reasons of introducing Bangla calendar. In villages, Raju remembered that Hul Khatas were held on the advent of Baishakh. The housewives cooked boiled rice, fried rice with date gur which was called moa. Different kinds of pitha, payesh and cakes were also made on the occasion.</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">Part-2</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">When annual cultural and sports competitions are held in the university halls, it wears a festive look. Raju became astonished to see the brilliant performance of the students in those competitions.  In every field of sports and games — chess, carom, badminton, football and cricket; in athletics race competition, high jump, long jump, javelin throwing, swimming etc — are held. Cultural competitions including debate, recitation of poem, music competition, dance competition, storytelling, jokes, acting, pantomime, essay writing, recitation from the Holy Quran so on and so forth. Raju did not know that the boy staying in the next room to him is so good a debater. What a speaker! Marvelous arguments he presented before the house. Everybody applauded his wonderful performance. Dancers, singers, badminton and table tennis players really gifted eye catching performance to the audience.  Raju could never imagine that they were that much talented. ‘Face is not the index’ of measuring one’s intelligence. Raju knew many of them but could never guess that they were that talented. Besides, VC, ministers, scholars and other dignitaries come either to inaugurate the programs or to distribute the prizes. National singers like Runa Laila, Sabina Yasmin, Baby Nazneen, Momtaj, Azam Khan came to perform on other occasions. Having enjoyed all these events Raju had the realization that campus makes student life glorious and student life makes campus glorious.</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">Part-3</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Raju was so excited that he wrote to his mother that he was not coming home to celebrate Eid. He remained in the hall to enjoy the Eid.  He celebrated all Eids in the village. So he wanted to taste how Eid in Dhaka city is. The first few days of the Eid vacation he spent in purchasing Eid garments for him and some gifts for his parents, sister and brother-in-law.  But he started feeling lonely as days passed by. The hall looked dark, empty and seemed to be wailing in absence of its lodgers. All left the hall save some cadres who took the security charge of the hall in their own hands like the sons who keep vigilance at night to ensure their hold on a disputed land left by their father in fear of being invaded and occupied by the goons. Some other 25 to 30 students were found hanging about the hall who had examinations after the vacation and whose target was to chew and digest their books either to get first class or to stand first in the class. Raju knew two or three of them only by face.</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">So, he started feeling listless before the evening of the Eid day. He did not get out of his room. He slept the whole afternoon. For the first time he felt that he was missing his Mom and Dad. He felt like leaving the hall. But there was no way. He did not book any ticket for home. His stomach started boiling but the dining hall and canteen were not open. So he intended to go to New Market or Shahbag to take dinner. Washing himself he finished saying his Magrib prayer. When he was crossing 2<sup>nd</sup> floor he  heard the sound of laughter coming out from a room of his acquaintance. He knocked the door thinking to invite them to take dinner with him outside.  The door was opened by a bald headed half known senior bother.’</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“Excuse me. May I come in?”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“Oh, sure.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">He extended his hand to shake with me and I introduced myself, “I’m Raju, from Jessore, 1<sup>st</sup> year, Dept. of Philosophy.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“Thank you. I’m Anuj, Political Science, final year. Home district Comilla. And this is Sadi Bhai.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“Assalamu alaikum.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“Walaikumus salam,” Shaking hands said Sadi. “Final year, Economics.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Dragging Raju a chair Anuj  said, “Sit down. Raju never mind our Sadi bhai comes from Noakhali. He feels ashamed of telling the name of his district. So I am to tell you.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“What of that even if I am from Noakhali?”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“No, nothing. Actually, I wanted to say that New Khali, means Noa Khali people are very nice. Talented… Hardworking… Diligent.. And many more. Isn’t it friend?” said, Anuj, testing boiled rice on his finger tips. Raju saw that vapors were coming out of the pot and were getting scattered in the air. They were cooking rice.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“Listen, you may think whatever you like about Noakhali people. You must have to admit that Noakhali people pilot the country. More than thirty percent secretaries come from Noakhali. And ten to thirty percent ministers of any government come from Noakhali. Mind it.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“OK, friend, I surrender and salute you. Your people are great.  That is why it is said if Noakhali people are planted on the ground, they will sprout, grow and spread their branches all around. Raju, you know, even if you go to the moon, you will find a Noakhali man there. A Noakhali man comes to Dhaka city penniless and become the owner of an apartment within twenty years.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“Do you think your Comilla people are stainless Tulsi Pata?”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“I never claimed that. Did I ever, dost? But you must not but admit that we also play a very significant role in any government. Moreover, if Noakhali has got thirty per cent secretaries, the contribution of Comilla is at least 20 percent, you know?”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“Ok, ok. You are the boss. Now, finish cooking quickly. My bowels are burning. “</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Raju, never mind, we are friends and we always go on Palestine-Israeli fashion. Of course, I’m cocksure that though there are solar and lunar eclipses between us, there is no possibility to collide with each other. ‘The moon and the sun will never be able to catch hold of each other’.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“ Raju, let us take dinner, Raju is our guest today.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“No, no, brother, thank you. I actually came to invite you to take dinner with me. I was feeling lonely and I came to take you to New Market or Shabagh or somewhere else.</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">“Ok, let’s have on any other day but today you share with us. We have got egg fry and mashed potato.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“Thank you so much bhaiya.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“Ok. We won’t press you. But why didn’t you go home to enjoy Eid? We didn’t go because we have exams. My dear friend, Sadi, is taking BCS exam and that is why we didn’t go home. You know Raju, he is a would-be secretary.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“I wanted to celebrate Eid in Dhaka. I want to taste it here.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“Do you have any relative at Dhaka?”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“No.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“Then it will be a very bad experience for you. You will feel lonely.  Anyway, we will say our Eid prayer in the National Eid Ground, High Court premises tomorrow at 8:00 am. Ok. So, get up early in the morning and we will call you. Which room do you stay in Raju?”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“555. I had a very wonder full time with you. See you tomorrow.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“Ok. Bye.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">When Raju got down the ground floor, he met Mr. Sami, one of their senior brothers. He expressed his wonder having seen him in the hall. “What’s up Raju? Didn’t you go to your village home?”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“Nothing, Just to celebrate the Eid here in Dhaka.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“But I see you are still in the hall. Why didn’t you go to Barisal?”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“I’ll enjoy my Eid vacation in my aunt’s house at Mirpur. I have just come to take my CPU. It may get stolen.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“Is there any thief here in the hall? I can’t believe.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“You don’t believe or not, there are thieves. Last year thieves broke into many rooms and took away everything valuable they got available. Many students made complaints to the house tutor. Nothing happened. Once your valuables are lost, nothing can be done. Who cares to catch the thieves? So, we must take care. Ok, Raju, I’m getting late. Eid Mubarak.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“Thank you bhaiya. Have a nice Eid, have a nice vacation, have a nice sleep and have a nice dream.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“I see, you talk so nice, Raju,. Thank you. Bye.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“Bye.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Raju moved towards the hall gate and found four or five cadres playing cards in the guest house. Raju knew one or two of them. They are from Tangail. Raju pretended not to take a look at them.  Crossing NeelKhet, he went to the New Market, Chadni Chak, and visited some of the shops at Elephant Road and found the markets overflowing with customers. There was hardly any space to stand or to walk on the footpaths.  He found people of all ages. And all were in jolly mood. Shopkeepers were also very busy in the last moment’s sale. Sometime they were getting themselves involved in hard bargaining with their customers.  Markets were decorated with colorful lights. Roads and streets are almost empty. Often people and brokers were dragging the cattle they bought for slaughtering on the Eid day. They were shouting and waiving the sticks in their hands to frighten the animals. These brokers either fastened their towel round their west or had worn them on their head like a turban. Raju asked the price of some of the animals. The buffalos and cows were very healthy and gigantic ones but the price was fairly high. The roads and streets were being filled with cow dung. But the cattle dealers seemed to be very happy and busier than they actually were. They seemed impatient to get back to their children and wives as quickly as they finished their task of producing the animals to the owners’ house. He also found a camel bought by a Dhakaia Kutti.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“How much, brother?”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“It took six lakh only, said the Kutti proudly.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Raju could not imagine that a man can spent so much money for sacrificing an animal for celebrating Eid-ul-Azha. He could not imagine that how much money one earned. But he realized that the whole community was ready to celebrate the Eid. He considered himself a part of their joy.</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">Part-4</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">He came back to the campus having dinner from Hotel Silvana, Shahbagh. It was a moonlit night. The whole campus seemed to be silent and over-flooded with soft, silky, divine moonlight.  Raju found a white bull tied inside the hall gate. House tutor Jahid sir, some cadres and hall staff were looking after the bull gathering round.  Reaching his room he opened the window and let the moonlight enter his room. And he slept under the cover of the moonlight. He woke up hearing the sweet sound of Fazr Azan coming from the central mosque. The daylight was breaking slowly dispersing the darkness outside. Gentle, cold breeze was blowing. He pulled up the kantha over his body and closing his eyes he tried to visualize the Eid day of his boyhood. Today it was a completely different day in his life. The much he heard the heart touching sound, Allah—hu Akbar, the more he was thrilled. He finished his morning prayer, bathed and having shemai from the dining hall and went to perform the Eid prayer in the National Eidgah, the High Court premises. He always nursed a desire deep in his heart to say prayer with the president of Bangladesh. He developed such a desire having seen the Eid prayer held on the High Court premises on television channels. So, he started for Eidgah quite early in the morning. He stood in the second row just behind the president. After performing the Eid prayer he waited for a long time to fulfill his desire and he was very nervous having seen the protocol and the gunmen all around him. Anyway his joy knew no bounds when he embraced the president. He came back to the hall almost empty pocket. He spent all the money in charity out of joy. The bull was slaughtered and the beef was divided into three portions first. One portion was distributed among the poor people. Then the two other portions were again divided into two and were distributed each portion to the hall staff, house tutor, political cadres and residential students. Raju took meal with the Kurbani-beef in the dining and after having a nap in the noon, he went to visit the Lalbag Fort to overcome boredom. He was thrilled to see the five hundred years old fort made by one of the most famous Sultan of Indian subcontinent Shyesta Khan. He saw the tank, the mosque, Hamamm Khana, the grave of Pari Bibi, the foster daughter of Shayesta Khan, the gold, silver and copper coins of that period, arms, swords, spears, shields etc.  He went back to the past for the time being. His mind got scattered conjecturing the sad end of a highly rich, cultured and established empire of Sultani and Mughal Dynasties and the British atrocities on them.  He met one of his friends, Laila, there coming to visit the fort with her parents and relatives. She was so excited to see Raju. She introduced him with her parents and relatives. They took many snaps of him along with her parents. She invited her to stay the night in their house. Raju was in a fix and ashamed as well. But as her parents pressed him hard he could not deny. Lailas are a very big family and they had an old fashioned Dhakaia Kutti Bari. Though it was an old building, there was the mark of aristocracy everywhere. Laila’s father was a business man.  They were originally from Bikrampur. One of her uncles was the commissioner of ward no. 43, Lalbagh, Dhaka City Corporation. Raju was greatly entertained in Laila’s house. All of them were very happy to get Raju as their guest. Raju befriended Laila’s younger brother, sister and cousins promptly. He made a great fun with them. He sang songs, cracked jokes, told stories, and watched TV with them. He offered them salami and received gifts from them. Those small, cute kids sang and danced moving round him. Raju was fed with numberless pitha, payesh, firni, halua, castard, juice, biriani, borhani, beef roast, mutton rezala, chicken curry, and hilsha fish with mastered seed. The next day Raju took leave of them wearing the Punjabi and Pajamas gifted by the parents of Laila.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“Getting back home, please give a phone call,” Laila said to Raju.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Raju nodded. He waved his hand as a sign of saying good bye and got into a taxicab. The next day Raju journeyed to his native village. His parents’ reaction was like as if they had found out their lost Jewell.</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">Part-5</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">At the time of admission test Raju boarded on the room of a senior brother of his school who lived in Surza Sen Hall.                                   Raju returned the university hall two or three days late after the university had opened. When he reached his room he found the room was overflowing with guests. And most of them were girls. Raju stumbled. He hesitated whether he should enter or not.  Rashed saw and introduced him with the rest. “All these are my friends.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Raju also noticed that the room is full of flowers and sweets. One of the girls lifted a piece of sweet and requested to open his mouth. Raju acted accordingly. “This is for the celebration of our friend Rashed’s being the first class first.” So let us celebrate bhaiya. Ok?”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">When the guests departed, Rahsed warned Raju, “Raju, beware of four ‘Ps’:  public, police, politics, papparaji and three ‘Ws”: woman, wealth and wine. When you succeed you might fail to resist the flood of popularity. But when you are in a bad patch they will never stand by you. You will find nobody around you.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">But Raju dared to argue Raju because he knew him to be a man of very liberal view. So he fearlessly passed his opinion,  “Shouldn’t we do politics to better our society and to establish democracy, bhaiya?”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“Of course,” said he. “But politics has turned into a monkey business. The party which forms the government dominates thoroughly and cares the opposition and the public for a straw. They are more interested in making money than making law. Do you call it politics or democracy? Democracy gives us unlimited freedom. But that does not mean that one will have to harm others. Democracy is not a mere word, we utter it and the society becomes democratic automatically. Democracy is a matter of practice. In democracy tolerance level should be hundred percent. Democracy should be made our culture. We have to practice democracy not only in our political life but also in our social and personal life as well. Now democracy brings no good news for the multitude. It is said that ‘democracy is a government far the people, off the people and bye the people.”</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">But Raju didn’t understand why Rashed bhaiya warned him against ‘public’. So, he said, “ Bhaiya, but why should we be aware of public.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“Ok, it is because when public favor you, they favor you all and wholeheartedly. But if their daydream once is broken they will take your skin out of your body. Understand?”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“Thank you. But do you come to know all about these things?”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“It’s nothing difficult. Just keep your eyes open and you will learn many things.”</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">Raju could not but honor Rashed’s argument. Rashed is so generous and honest a man that he used to sit on the floor and he let Raju sleep on his bed. So sacrificial a man he has never seen in his life! He took him to the market, to the mosque and even taught him how to keep his shoes and stockings neat and clean.</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">Part-6</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The other day when he boarded down from a rickshaw in the hall gate, he saw that a student is beating a rickshaw puller over a quarrel of rickshaw fare. The rickshaw puller demanded 15 taka but the student is reluctant to pay him more than 8 taka. Some other student also joined the show of beating the rickshaw puller. Rashed  tried to stop them and let the rickshaw puller go. He also paid him the due. Thus he learned many things from him. So, he felt that if he could pass the whole of his university life with Rashed.</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">Four months later after my admission the university was declared closed because of the clash between two student factions. Two cadres and a tokai died in that clash. Before afternoon the campus seemed to be empty and silent. Raju came back to my home and passed two months idly. In these two months he felt that he was living in a primitive age.  In the hall he read four or five dailies daily. Now he don’t read any. When the halls opened, the campus looked jubilant again throbbing with lives and activities. But there were casualties among the rival student groups both in the halls and in the campus. Most of the change took place in the government. And they were quarreling with one another in capturing halls.   In the gate of every hall police guards were deployed. Besides armed cadre guards consisting of political students were posted at night. The cadres all through the night play cards and take whisky at the hall guestroom.</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">However, Raju just completed his first year examination. He was preparing his bag and baggage to go to his native village. Suddenly, a hall staff came and informed that two aged persons were waiting to meet him in the guest room. Raju ran down quickly and found that they were nobody but his parents. He took them to his room and introduced them to Rashed. They were very pleased to be introduced to Rashed. “ We have heard a lot about you from Raju. Last time when he went home he always talked about you. Anyway we are grateful to you that Raju got such a brother. Raju could not survive here without you,” said Raju’s father.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“Raju has the habit of exaggerating things,” said Rashed. “Wash yourself first, take lunch and then take rest  for a while. We would discuss it later on.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">“Babajee, this is for you,” said  Raju’s mother  to Rashed handing in some meat , halua, and patali made of date gur.</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">After washing, they all got out to visit the Central Shaheed Minar, Hosni Dalan, and  Ahsan Monjoil in the after noon. Raju took his parents very carefully to those places avoiding some spots in the campus where boys and girls pass their time in such an objectionable disposition, that they might feel ashamed of. After the visit they took hajir biriani. Raju took his parents to a hotel in the Nawabgoj Road to pass the night. The next day Laila came running hearing that Raju’s parents had came to Dhaka. Laila’s parents also came and made many complaints against Raju for not telling them that his parents came to visit Dhaka. They facilitated Raju’s parents with car, transport and other necessaries for the convenience of visiting all the sights they desired to see. They entertained them greatly taking them at their house.  Raju’s did not like whatever Laila did for his parents as he felt that he was going to get involved deeply with Laila’s family. Anyway, parents came back home content.</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">Two or three days later after Raju’s  arrival in the hall, Rashed anxiously told him to find out a friend who resided at Salimullah Hall so that he could  manage a seat for him. Rashed also informed Raju that in the Dean’s meeting with the vice-chancellor  it was that the administration was going to impose restriction on residing outsiders in the halls. From now students would have to live in their own halls. He was in a fix. That evening a terrible incident took place. Their hall was captured by another group of students. They ransacked a number of rooms which are known as political rooms, burnt the valuables of some rooms and beat a couple of students. They also shot at a student leader. Luckily he toppled over of the outer wall of the hall and narrowly could save his life. The violent cadres also came to vandalize the room of Rashed . He was not at the hall that time. He usually goes to teach a student as a house tutor. Actually that hour of the evening the hall almost remains vacant. The students get out the hall either to give adda at TSC or go to market to do shopping or remain outside to do their needful. Adda at TSC, Mall chatter, hakim chatter, at library, Ramana Park, Shohrawarbdi Uddyan, and in front of Rokeya and Shamsunnahar hall and some other places in the campus get dense. Any way he  was too frightened to forbid them from vandalizing the room of Rashed Bhai. Among the cadres he found the boy who quarreled with the rickshaw puller and dog Shishir. They wanted to burn the room. But the other students did not allow them to do that. They said , “Rahsed Bhai is simply a good boy. We need not crack any personal vengeance over him.”  One of the cadres was going to slap Raju. But the other unnerved him. They dragged him out of the room. They went away chanting the slogan, “Flood of blood will wash away all the injustice; Fight, fight, fight-we want and want to live by fighting. The black hands of the terrorists, thrush and crush. The goons of SDP, beware and be alert. Accomplices and collaborators of SDP, leave Bangladesh at once. ………….When they left the place, Raju was almost crying. He found blood was dripping from his elbow. He could not imagine how they could smash the room of Rashed. Rashed used to lead sometimes the congregation of Jumma and other prayers in absence of the pesh imam. He sent a message to Rashed by one of his friends saying not to come to the hall that night. Later on at eight pm police raided the hall. They shot tear-gas cell in side the hall. Most possibly while they were vandalizing the room a piece of glass hit on his hand. There was a wonderful story about dog Shishir. Once he went to extol money from Katabon market. But he was given nothing. So he took away a dog forcefully from the dog dealers. Since then he is called dog Shishir. There were two leader Shishirs that time in the Surzo Sen Hall. For an easy recognition the students gave them such names.</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">Part-8</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">One of Raju’s friends having seen him the next day thoughtful enquired what happened.  He saw him pale and dry and looking silent. He asked what had happened to him. Raju informed him that he could not stay at Surzo Sen Hall. He must find a seat in his own hall, Salimullah. He assured him not to be worried at all. He took him to Salimullah Hall and met a student leader and said, “He has given me the second life. He needs a seat and he wants that it has been carried properly.” The leader gave him a seat in room no. 131 which is known as gono room. Four seats, eight persons. But he laid down a condition that he would have to attend the political processions brought out in the campus by the student leaders. He was very much scared in the first few days and passed almost sleep less nights. Gradually, he started to befriend others and to be intimate with them.</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">Let us get back to the past for a moment to narrate why Raju’s friend was doing too much for Raju. One morning a stranger came to meet Raju in the hall. He handed him a chit. He was asked to meet a lawyer in the CMM court and to pay the bearer five hundred taka. He is imprisoned in the central jail. It was written by one of his friends. He was one of his class mates. He thought that he was going to be black mailed. But he could recognize the hand writing. So, he shared the matter with Rashed bhai. He told Raju that he might be arrested on political ground. So he took him to the hall president of the ruling part student wing. He phoned to the Ramana Police Station. He smiled and let them know that it was not a political case. Might be he was arrested from Sohrawardi Uddyan at night. So, they went to the CMM court, met the lawyer and after much bargaining they settled to give him five thousand taka. He gave them a ticket. They went to the central jail with that ticket. They waited until it was noon. When Raju’s friend  came out of the jail, they found him almost naked. Everything of him was robbed off by the goons inside the jail. He lost his wrist watch, pants, shirt, and mobile set. He was wearing only a half pants and a genji. They did not know what to do, should they laugh or cry.</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">Raju passed the first few days in the Salimullah Halll in great tension because the cadres kept their arms and bullets either under his bed or behind the book shelf. He was very much scared of being caught by the police. But he started adjusting himself with the new situation like the other room mates. He decided to befriend all and to developed relation with them. He has no other way. He got a nice scope. He invited all the student leaders of Salimullah Hall on my birth day. He arranged the program at night. Everybody thanked me. Some petty cadres started calling him ‘the boss’. They were immensely happy that they had never enjoyed such an event in their life.  He fed them all with my birth day cake and packet biriani. They were immensely happy and instantly declared that he should be shifted to a two seated room. I thanked them.  He presented gifts to the party secretary and the president. He made a small speech which was hailed by everybody. Some one said, “ Oh, he is a good speaker”. He did it intentionally. It took a whole week to prepare the speech. Then he memorized so accurately so that he do not forget any point during delivery. His plan worked properly and he was able to draw the attention of the political leaders. He also planned to sing a song in chorus. After eating they danced and sang.</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">Which ship does not sink?</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">It’s friendship, .. friendship..</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Hurray….. hip ,hip, h..ip</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Hurray hip, hip, h..ip</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">Raju started to participate in the political processions brought out in the campus and in the hall. He also kept watching with arms in the hall gate at night. Thus he participated all kinds of party activities. He was learning how and which slogans are to chant during the procession, how to deliver a speech, and how to handle political matters, how to make grouping, how to make channels with the senior leaders and how to get to their blue book. No body was ready to spend a penny for the party. Everybody was busy only in   earning two pies.  He spending a lot of for organizing any program or in any crisis faced by the party. So he was soon picked up by the senior leaders.</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">But unlike the other so called student leaders he  never took food free of cost from the dining/ canteen nor took any toll from any shop or market though he could not very well stop them from doing all these things.  The most interesting thing he learnt is political diplomacy. Condemning the government for any thing and every thing even for good things. That is discrediting the credits of the government.  As a result the government will never be able to win the heart of the people even for its best possible contribution.  The easiest way to become a good leader and a good speaker is to mention the unhappy and unwelcome events published in the newspaper and telecast on the TV channels during delivering speech on the political stage. Besides, ‘always put on a happy smile on your face and sell it to your supporters’. Never criticize or condemn your party men even if they commit the worst of crime.  Never bother what one say about you in your presence or absence. One or two incidents may be presented before you. Raju branded it as political diplomacy. Such as beating the dining manager, on the charge of serving bad curry but the real intention behind it is to procure free food from the dining by the student leaders.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The other incident is,  in one of the meetings under the feet of Oparajeyo Bangla the then party Secretary Iqbal said in protest of molesting of a female leader of PDCS by the ruling party student faction. He usually started his speech condemning the prime minister “Madam…, do not consider PDCS a plantain tree. Do not be too foolish to think that teasing PDCS will excite your instinct of procreation. PDCS is a paprda tree full of thorns. If you come to tickle it, you will bleed only. Madam we do not know how you can assault a woman, being yourself a woman. We condemn the hateful act of our opposition friends. We also demand an investigation of the incident and to form a committee and to disclose the fact and expel those who are guilty.”</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">The other day in another procession the student leaders condemned the fact of delivering speech in the General Assembly of the UNO in Bangla. By delivering speech in Bangla, the then prime minister defamed Bangla because the world leaders do not know the language. So, they did not understand it. As the prime minister did not know English she failed to deliver speech in English. So, they continued blaming the prime minister. But four years later when their party came to power and their dear leader cum prime minister delivered speech in the same assembly, the same student leaders celebrated the incident claiming it and marking it as a historical incident. They hailed their leader as a great leader and congratulated her on placing Balngla in a dignified position in the world.Thus Raju was learning the secret of politics and he planned to capitalize his learning in building up his career in politics..</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ifrith Islam Physicians may consider a sleeper in a running bus a patient and initiate immediately to take the sleeper to a nearby hospital. But we Bengalis often sleep aboard on a vehicle and I was no exception on that day. Happily I was sleeping in the night coach hurriedly heading for Jessore town. It [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">Physicians may consider a sleeper in a running bus a patient and initiate immediately to take the sleeper to a nearby hospital. But we Bengalis often sleep aboard on a vehicle and I was no exception on that day. Happily I was sleeping in the night coach hurriedly heading for Jessore town. It was rather a deep sleep when the bus was heaving and swaying. I was dreaming a sweet dream. But with an extreme jerk I opened eyes.<span id="more-1344"></span> The bus carrying us collided head-on with another coming from opposite direction. The ordeal I felt was terribly desolate and subsequently swathed me. The elusive impact left me astounded as I stood up to look around. I flurried as the debris scattered all over the accident spot. Broken glass, scattered luggage, bleeding and maimed passengers, groaning fellows lied here and there. For the first time I felt suffocation though on first opening my eyes I saw the furious and blazing smoke bellowing up from the spot. Sepulchral silence let me think that it was a nightmare. The gruesome situation and a choke scream like a deer clawed down by a starving Royal Bengal Tiger. I tried my best to pull up myself and succeeded. Though exhausted and limping and trying to cope up with the echo of “Help” through the aisle as it mingled around. I could not to recognize the screaming voice but could feel someone was in danger until I discovered my dearest friend near the door of the crushed bus lying almost unconscious. I stored all my energy picked him and piggy-backed him. I strolled toward a window to escape from the blast.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">My dying friend asked for water whereas I was trying to get out of the hell. The rear sears of the bus blasted and I sat down to hide ourselves from the flares of flame. The stream of flame dazzled my eyes ahead of us. The extreme exhaustion by the pouring out blood had no energy left to step ahead by me.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">No time was left to explode this bus. I thought briskly about our escape from this blazing hell which as killing me its glowing flame and its heat. So, I headed quickly with my dying friend as my back and some hope came down to me by seeing the raising sun and at the sun dial. Someone screamed, telling another, “Over there someone was trying to come out of the bus through the window on the driver’s right”. I could not hear the last word as it died down immediately and I fell from window and did not know what exact happened next.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">For the second time, when I opened my eyes found me lying on a hospital bed and five or four pairs of eyes were on me and they said in chorus, “Thanks to Allah that He has kept you alive.” “Many of your fellow passengers of the bus died on the spot,” another said. I leaned against a pillow and asked them about my friend. In reply the doctor said, “He is OK and sleeping.” Later I heard the bus had turned into ash and a few of the bus passengers survived.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">We were only the survivors from a fatal destruction and I still thank Allah that He really had saved us and swore to myself that I would never sleep in a running bus as long as I live.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Kazi Falguni Eshita I live in a comparatively neat place at Uttara model town, Dhaka. 3rd floor is not a very calm place to live in, especially with quite a number of buildings under construction and thousands of other sources of noise pollution all around us.  According to my observations the major environmental problems in [...]]]></description>
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<p>I live in a comparatively neat place at Uttara model town, Dhaka. 3rd floor is not a very calm place to live in, especially with quite a number of buildings under construction and thousands of other sources of noise pollution all around us.  <span id="more-1252"></span>According to my observations the major environmental problems in our neighborhood are:<br />
Lots of noise pollution within ones audible range.<br />
Lack of trees and playing fields.<br />
Extremely dense traffic congestion(this also causes air pollution)<br />
Too much of suspended soil in the air<br />
Last but not the least, the most common problem, power cuts after every two hours.<br />
Crash! Dhum! Dham! Tick tockhippity hop lovely sound effects, right? Well, maybe they look nice in the written form, but trust me; they give severe headaches at times. The sound from construction sites all around me sometimes gets on my nerves. Im in such a situation where I cannot even look out of my window. If I look out of my verandah, I can easily wave a hello to my nephews friend. If I look out of my bedside window, I see a lot of day laborers on the roof of a building under construction. Being a girl, it is not very comfortable to be stared at, and Im always getting stared at by all those construction workers. At times I feel like an alien. Moreover, other people including tenants and owners of other houses also complain about this disgusting sound. We cannot sleep at night because of the high sound of FM radios and the hammering. I wonder when this will end.<br />
We all have children at home. Naturally, they need space to play to enjoy a proper childhood. We have neither trees nor fields for the children. As a result, the chirping of birds is decreasing. We dont see enough trees around us; we dont have common animals like squirrels either. How do we take our children close to nature?  We certainly need to create an ecological balance around us.<br />
Every single Bengali is well aware of the common problem called traffic jam or traffic congestion. Vehicle emissions also cause air pollution. Everyday during the rush hours we have to wait at least for fifteen minutes at Chow Rasta and ahead. I wonder when our traffic police will understand how to maintain the vehicles.<br />
A really irritating side effect of the construction work is the excessive amount of suspended soil in the air. I dont need to apply talcum powder or any other cosmetics. The amount of dust in the air works as a powder for me. I wish there would be invisible mops and dusters to wipe all the dust away.<br />
The last and the most disgusting problem is the power cut after every two hours. People might say that this is not an environmental problem but to me it is. I always hate power cuts. I think government intentionally gives us so many power cuts.<br />
The remedies to these problems are quite simple according to my findings. To begin with, we should decrease the number of houses around us. It is true that people always want their own homes and living as tenants and counting a lot of money as house rent is not desired.  We can make a system or rule of having a fixed amount of space beside every house for plants. On the other hand, we can also plant trees in pots on the roof. Also, leave a small piece of land beside every house as a playground for kids because it might not be possible to take them to the parks all the time. Also, try to make wooden birdhouses or bird nests wherever possible. Thus, we can make our children familiar with the different types of birds we have in our country. The in house gardens can also be a good source to create our own ecological balance because plants attract birds and insects.<br />
Our traffic police should attend certain seminars and trainings to gather more knowledge on maintaining the vehicles. Also, the employers of the traffic police should ask for more educational qualification of the employees. At least some of our traffic police should get the opportunity to go and see the system of maintaining vehicles in developed countries. More knowledge will give them better ideas and they can implement those ideas here in our country. If this can be done, the air pollution of Bangladesh can be reduced gradually.<br />
The suspended soil problem and the electricity problem will be a little difficult to solve. A substitute of electricity has to be found to power up the houses.  For example if solar energy can be preserved in some artificial way, it can be a substitute of electricity. On the other hand, decreasing the construction work would reduce the amount of suspended soil in the air.<br />
Overall, finding out the environmental problems around me and solving them was an interesting job indeed.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Kazi Falguni Eshita Despite being an English Medium student all throughout my life, I always had a special place for Bengali in my heart. It was always at the top of my favorite subject’s list. Since childhood, I had participated in many special competitions like the handwriting competition held on the 21st of February every [...]]]></description>
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<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">Despite being an English Medium student all throughout my life, I always had a special place for Bengali in my heart. It was always at the top of my favorite subject’s list. Since childhood, I had participated in many special competitions like the handwriting competition held on the 21st of February every year at the national museum.<span id="more-1213"></span></div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">On the other hand, I also had plenty of fun participating in the special art competitions held at the Institute of Fine Arts to mark the significance of various special days like Bijoy Dibosh or Shadhinota Dibosh. My friends used to throw taunts at me saying:</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">“Bengali? That’s a language for rural people, what would you do with that?”</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">I always gave a cold shoulder to those remarks. I love watching films and documentaries related to the liberation war. We had achieved independence after nine months of bloodshed. I hate it when people enjoy talking in a hodgepodge language that is neither Bengali, nor English. Rather, I would call this special language “Banglish”.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">I wonder why people take pride in being able to speak well in Hindi or some other foreign language. I learn English to face the challenges of life, that does not mean we have to forget our roots. I would love to talk in pure Bangla, not Banglish.</div>
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		<description><![CDATA[Kazi Falguni Eshita Pain…hmm, unkind, yet required sometimes. Actually, I had faced many days of this sort. Recently, I had sat for my final examination. That was the time my sister-in-law went through the last stage of pregnancy. So, obviously, she was not so well. Despite having an exam knocking at my door, I had [...]]]></description>
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<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">Pain…hmm, unkind, yet required sometimes. Actually, I had faced many days of this sort. Recently, I had sat for my final examination. That was the time my sister-in-law went through the last stage of pregnancy. So, obviously, she was not so well.<span id="more-1121"></span></div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">Despite having an exam knocking at my door, I had to do some works because in a joint family, I had to care about others’ feelings too. As a result, I could not study as much as required, but I had many dreams about this exam.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">I know there are many students who look forward to vacations after exams. Staying at home makes me lonely, so certainly I became very happy after hearing that A- level students never get vacations. I was happily doing classes until I got an answer sheet of my favorite subject checked.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">People present in class that day know how I felt. The marks painted in red ink on the front page directly stabbed my heart at the first sight. But thanks to the teacher, he did not shower beads of marks on me just to make me happy. Instead, the footnotes scribbled underneath each answer guided me through many fields of the subject like a lantern in darkness. And shock? For me that is definitely strength, because sorrow makes me desperate to brush away my weaknesses.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">I had gone through the whole paper that night, and realized that I had to pay for being in a real hurry, being too quick is never smartness.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">I was having difficulties with the attitudes and teaching methods of a certain teacher. Pleasure circulated in my veins as I got introduced to another new teacher of the same subject. I was amazed to see how he handled a new student like me with tender care. I asked myself:</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">“Fool!&#8221; Just what are you doing to repay these guides who are cleaning the crooked path of your life with knowledge?”</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">I could only answer: “I’d certainly try.”</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">Just before another exam, my sister-in-law experienced labour and I had to play with my little nephew to keep him away from his mother, sacrificing my own study time.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">Obviously, lack of studies was reflected in that paper as well. But surely Allah did repay me for that sacrifice with a beautiful little niece, the little toy I have always wanted.</div>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Kazi Falguni Eshita<br />
Pain…hmm, unkind, yet required sometimes. Actually, I had faced many days of this sort. Recently, I had sat for my final examination. That was the time my sister-in-law went through the last stage of pregnancy. So, obviously, she was not so well.Despite having an exam knocking at my door, I had to do some works because in a joint family, I had to care about others’ feelings too. As a result, I could not study as much as required, but I had many dreams about this exam.I know there are many students who look forward to vacations after exams. Staying at home makes me lonely, so certainly I became very happy after hearing that A- level students never get vacations. I was happily doing classes until I got an answer sheet of my favorite subject checked.People present in class that day know how I felt. The marks painted in red ink on the front page directly stabbed my heart at the first sight. But thanks to the teacher, he did not shower beads of marks on me just to make me happy. Instead, the footnotes scribbled underneath each answer guided me through many fields of the subject like a lantern in darkness. And shock? For me that is definitely strength, because sorrow makes me desperate to brush away my weaknesses.I had gone through the whole paper that night, and realized that I had to pay for being in a real hurry, being too quick is never smartness.I was having difficulties with the attitudes and teaching methods of a certain teacher. Pleasure circulated in my veins as I got introduced to another new teacher of the same subject. I was amazed to see how he handled a new student like me with tender care. I asked myself: “Fool!&#8221; Just what are you doing to repay these guides who are cleaning the crooked path of your life with knowledge?”I could only answer: “I’d certainly try.”Just before another exam, my sister-in-law experienced labour and I had to play with my little nephew to keep him away from his mother, sacrificing my own study time.Obviously, lack of studies was reflected in that paper as well. But surely Allah did repay me for that sacrifice with a beautiful little niece, the little toy I have always wanted.</p>
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		<title>6o Floors</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Jan 2011 02:49:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Aminul Islam Ehsan Three friends came to the New York City. They decided to stay in a hotel during the visit. It so happened that their room ended up being on the 60th floor. The policy of the hotel was that every night after 12:00 a.m. the elevators are shut down for security reasons. So [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="_mcePaste">Aminul Islam Ehsan</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">Three friends came to the New York City. They decided to stay in a hotel during the visit. It so happened that their room ended up being on the 60th floor. The policy of the hotel was that every night after 12:00 a.m. the elevators are shut down for security reasons. So on the next day, the three friends rented a car and went out to explore the city. <span id="more-1105"></span>They enjoyed movies, concerts, and other things throughout the whole day. At one point, they remembered that they have to get back to the hotel before 12 a.m. When they arrived, it was beyond 12 a.m. at night. The elevators were shut down. There was no other way to get back to their room but to take the stairs all the way to the 60th floor. All of a sudden, one friend got an idea. He said &#8220;For the first 20 floors, I will tell jokes to keep us going. Then another one of us could say wisdom stories for the next 20 floors. Finally, we will cover the other 20 floors with sad stories.&#8221; So, one of the friends started with the jokes. With laughs and joy, they reached the 20th floor. Now, another friend started saying stories that are full of wisdom. So, they learned a lot while reaching the 40th floor. Now, it was time for the sad stories. So, the third friend started thus, &#8220;My first sad story is that I left the key for the room in the car.&#8221;</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">Now, what is the point of this story? This story resembles our life cycle. For the first 20 years of our life, we spend time in joking and enjoying whatever is out there. Then, after we reach 20, we go into the work force, get married, have kids and this is the time when we use our wisdom. Then, if we reach 40, we finally see the white hairs and begin to think that my life is coming to an end and the sadness begins. In this story the three friends or anyone of them might come back down to the car to get the key and climb up the stairs again though it would be a very struggling work. But in real life we can never ever go back to our past and utilize it properly for time is like a stone thrown away in the middle of an ocean which you never expect to come back to you.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">It&#8217;s better that we start our life in the very beginning by remembering death rather than preparing for it at the end our life when very few of us have the energy to obey Allah completely.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">The writer is a student of class-XI in Rajuk Uttara Model College</div>
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		<title>Eve-Teasing: Who are responsible for stalking</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Dec 2010 06:02:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Irin Sultana Shatu Eve teasing is euphemism abused for public sexual harassment, street harassment or molestation of women by men, Sometimes it is referred to with a coy suggestion of innocent fun, making it appear innocuous with no resulting liability on the part of the perpetrator. Many boys take it just a fun. They think [...]]]></description>
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<div style="text-align: justify;">Eve teasing is euphemism abused for public sexual harassment, street harassment or molestation of women by men, Sometimes it is referred to with a coy suggestion of innocent fun, making it appear innocuous with no resulting liability on the part of the perpetrator. Many boys take it just a fun. They think it as a natural instinct of them or a part of smartness. It usually occurs in public place, streets, and public transport.<span id="more-1042"></span></div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">If we observe our film industry, we will find maximum cinema-script is written focusing eve teasing. In the startle of cinema, heroine comes to the College, where there are some stalkers, always teases. One day heroin chooses a boy from the eve teasers as hero and the very eve teaser emerges as hero or the idol for immature cinema going boys. Here mention that media is a very important object that easily influences our culture. So here media is responsible for teasing. This type of cinema teaches how to tease a girl.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">According to survey result it is seen that approximately 80% boys think it as a normal fact. They think that if they can’t tease how they will involve in affair. Eve teasing pushes girls out of education. Girls who are harassed are also pushed into marriage before physical or mental preparation. Eve teasing is globally a social problem.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">Now-a-days Government is rethinking about this topic. Banglaesh National Women Lawyers Association (BNWLA) showed that 90% of girls are suffered from teasing. The harassment can take a variety of form. They may be from rich, poor, educated, illiterate etc. Avoiding this harassment many girls are committed suicide. They think they have no way to escape.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">In this situation, government tries to protect this situation by imposing law. Some concerned quarters have suggested enacting very stringent law to take care of the so-called &#8220;eve-teasers&#8221; and their depredations. The question is, are existing laws inadequate to fight the delinquency of stalking and harassment of young girls and women? But that’s not the main fact, because social values are not tought by imposing law. The values comes from culture, learning, family etc. Day by day girls are being so called smart by their dress up following western culture that helps to increase dormant lust of a boy. Eve Teasing is got attention by media in 1960. But media has no headache about their fault. So how can it possible to remove this problem? Day by day more and more women started going out to colleges as a consequence of increasing eve teasing. Few days ago, we saw the scenario of Chanpa Rani Bhowumic and Mijanoor Rahman.They protested the stalkers. As a result they had to sacrifice their lives. In another incident, three students of Dhaka University have been expelled for one year. We can’t demand that from our education system. Our education system and society teaches us either wrong lesson or we perceive in a wrong way. For this reason, we can only see the wave of sea but can’t realize the main cause of wave. If we follow India we see they made a organization named BLANK NOISE that is working for women to remove their inferiority. So we can make a organization that will be counseling both boys and girls. Thus we can save our misguided generation.</div>
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		<title>Eve Teasing: How to Curve It</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Dec 2010 06:02:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ahmed Istiaq Sajid Before slating my view, I would like to share a story about one of my classmates.  His name is Mamun. He is a very jolly boy. One day I was happened to see him carrying a guitar in the coaching campus. I noticed he was not playing it, rather was pretending to [...]]]></description>
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<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Ahmed Istiaq Sajid</strong></div>
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<div style="text-align: justify;">Before slating my view, I would like to share a story about one of my classmates.  His name is Mamun. He is a very jolly boy. One day I was happened to see him carrying a guitar in the coaching campus. I noticed he was not playing it, rather was pretending to play. Some of his friends were accompanying him. He continued the same practice all the week long. I went up to him and asked if he could really play it or not.<span id="more-1041"></span>He replied that he was doing it intentionally to impress a new girl naming Tanisha and he had no interest in guitar, even not in music. Within a few days he somehow collected the cell phone number of that girl and expressed his feelings. But she denied him. Then Mamun started to tantalize the girl. Consequently, the parents of that girl captivated her within the house. This is an edifice of what we call eve-teasing. Through my story I was willing to point out cause and effects of eve-teasing. Probably eve teasing is the most crucial phenomenon in recent times in our country. I have tried to root out the definite reasons of eve teasing. Jilted love affair should be marked as the prime reason of eve teasing. Crooked, perverted and vengeful youths satisfy their perversion by teasing whom they used to love. Reports appearing in various national dailies show that within the last few months, numbers of suicide has occurred due to eve teasing. To prevent such kind of crime, some steps should be taken. Firstly parents can play the most significant role at the adolescence of their children. Generally teenage boys fall in love. Here parents can play a role by understanding them the negative effects of falling in love at a tender age. If they do so, they should be amended. Teen age girls are the main victims of eve teasing. They should be made aware of religious bindings. Hijab may help them to assuage such problems. The young generation should be made aware of the nefarious effects of eve teasing. Now the youths and even adolescents are coming forward to stop eve teasing. If the youths of today omen to stay out of such bad practice, it is hoped that those occurrences will not happen further.</div>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Gov. Science College, Dhaka</p>
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		<title>What They Think</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Dec 2010 06:01:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We asked few students about the present state of Eve Teasing and how they see it. Accordingly we asked them a few questions to know their viewpoints. Here are some of them. Q: Why eve teasing has increased so much- what do you think? A: The law and order situation has deteriorated due to political [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">We asked few students about the present state of Eve Teasing and how they see it. Accordingly we asked them a few questions to know their viewpoints. Here are some of them.</div>
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<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">Q: Why eve teasing has increased so much- what do you think?</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">A: The law and order situation has deteriorated due to political hegemony. So eve teasers have become more reckless.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">Q: Do you think the family, if wants, can make any difference?</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">A: By providing genuine support to the girls, the families can at least prevent suicides. But more than that – i.e. stopping the eve teasers successfully – will depend upon how influential the family is.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">Q: What should be the role of education system in this regard?</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">A: Primary education should be teaching us to respect others, should be teaching us our obligation to others – all these are absent.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">Q: Does cultural aggression add fuel to this problem? What is your opinion?</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">A: Very much so. Our advertisements &amp; certain novels/TV programs promote eve teasing by showing “Well if a girl says No now, you only have to pursue her vigorously for her to say Yes”.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">Q: What should the youth, both male and female, do to overcome this problem?</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">A: Be religious. The logical, practical form.</div>
<div style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Rifat Islam</strong></div>
<div style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Student, NSU</strong></div>
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<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">Q: Why eve teasing has increased so much- what do you think?</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">A: Because of pornography and resilience- go figure.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">Q: Do you think the family, if wants, can make any difference?</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">A: Yes.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">Q: What should be the role of education system in this regard?</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">A: Introduce gender studies.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">Q: Does cultural aggression add fuel to this problem? What is your opinion?</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">A: Yes. I think all the sociolinguists and psycholinguists should decide on the syllabus- discourse: transcribed and spoken- in a way so that the whole “culture” of male dominance is not emphasized. Books, what we study/learn/taught, and how the teachers communicate have a lot to do with how we think at the end of the day—those are the medium of “exposure” people value and a hypothetical educated society gets the most.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">Q: What should the youth, both male and female, do to overcome this problem?</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="text-align: justify;">A: Like I said the right kind of exposure will generate the right kind of mind frame. If our attitude (primarily how a person thinks) matures, our lifestyle/actions will change too.</div>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Fahima Ali</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Student, BMC</strong></p>
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